Sitting in this waiting room I see old people, young people,
men, women, black people, white people, skinny and fat people. There are baldheads, hat heads,
scarves, wigs, and heads full of hair. I see spouses, mothers, fathers,
sisters, brothers, friends, family, and private caretakers. Cancer doesn’t take applicants. It
doesn’t just accept those who have the prerequisites for it. It doesn’t care about your GPA,
community service or your internship.
It doesn’t care if you’ve been a garbage man for 30 years, a doctor for
10 years, or a stay-at-home mom raising her 7 children. It doesn’t care that you’ve just
retired or if you’ve just started your family. When you get its call, you will take it, it won’t leave a
message. It expects you to drop
everything because it has become your new full-time, limited benefits,
job. You may get some occasional
time off, but never the promise of retirement. It is the ultimate over-worked, under-paid scenario.
Our trip to “Saint Loolis” as Sloane affectionately calls it
couldn’t have started out any better.
The kiddos did great with the 4.5-hour drive and we arrived at our hotel
around 8pm Tuesday evening. After
the arrival of my dear friend Lindsey, we headed to the indoor pool to get
Sloane some playtime. After She
proclaimed this was “the best day everrrrr” it was time for bed and an early
wake up for lab work. Dow, Brandt
and I headed to the cancer center for labs and paperwork while Lindsey and
Sloane walked to the St Louis Aquarium.
We finished with scheduling and a preliminary workup knowing Dow would
be back for an Avastin infusion and trial drug injection in the morning. After a traumatizing encounter with
man-eating macaws at the aquarium’s entrance, Sloane decided that trip needed
to be nixed before it even started.
As the day went on, Dow’s anxiety seemed to increase and we decided to
go ahead and send the kids back to Kansas City with Lindsey so they could be in
their environment. We spent
a lovely evening bowling, and trying to relax as much as possible.
This morning has been frustrating. I know it’s just the first day kinks, but even when you
think you’ve done everything to prepare-something goes wrong. Between insurance red tape and pharmacy
hold-up this already emotional day has become more stressful without even
having a drug yet. The plan is to
receive the trial injection, followed by a 30 minute Avastin infusion, and a
one-hour wait period for side effects.
We will then head back to KC to be with our little ones. Unless I post another update, assume
that all went well with medications and that we are tentatively planning to be
back every 2 weeks for treatments.
Rarely does cancer affect only one person. It takes its toll on the family,
friends, and community surrounding them.
Life won’t stop for cancer.
Bills still have to be paid, lawns need to be mowed, and toilets have to
be scrubbed. I have seen
firsthand in our lives the way people band together to help ease the stresses
on our family. Childcare, lawn
care, meals, donations, the list goes on and on, and we are forever in the
debts of those who have stepped up to take part in our journey. In this waiting room microcosm, I am
seeing all the different ways people cope with this garbage pail disease, and I
am in awe of the way humans come together to care for one another in times of
need.
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